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Maybe Arranged or Love Marriage, its a virtual connection between the Minds & Hearts of a man & a woman.
Arranged marriage - Parents don't want their children to talk with strangers but it is perfectly fine to marry a stranger.
Love marriage - Children who don't want to stay alone or wait for their parents to decide their future, choose this
But both the types of marriages are just the beginning for a happy ending or the other case as it lies only with the hands of the couple to take it further.
There are 3 types of people depending on the dependency on others:
* Dependent - no problem with these kind of people..
* Independent - problems gets raised with these kind as they don't even know what they lose by trying to be Independent..
* Independent & Interdependent - the best of all the above types, being selectively independent & also being interdependent with the surrounding. No problems exist with these kind of people..
Once the marriage is done, its just the couple who needs to lead it further not the external environment including their parents. Bcoz its a matter of their life & future.
Lonely grown pampered children, with complete focus of parents on them grow with full freedom in their life. But they are emotionally hacked unknowingly by their parents.
They are attached with their parents & saturated with luxuries leading to high expectations in their future life. But life means missing expected things & facing unexpected things.
Children of lone parents tend to be less socialized among the crowd & they have their own goals to be accomplished in their life. That doesn't mean, they are not fit for social life. They doesn't even know how to be happy or express their happiness. Bcoz they have been brought that way.
Never judge any book by its cover & that will be applicable to anything. The grown up adult couple needs to understand the fact that they need to live their lives not how their parents want it to be.
Post marriage in this modern generation, parents are being influential in their children's life. The couple should come out of their comfort zone of their own family & need to plan for their own family of the two.
The couple need to understand about how long their parents can come along with them. They are important in life but who should be the priority after marriage must be mutually decided between them. Conflicts need to be resolved within the couple rather taking with their respective parents.
Try to find the inner beauty of the other rather complaining about others. The most powerful way to win any argument is by asking questions. It can make people understand the flaws in their logic.
People of this generation has got many friends in the modern socialized structure. But in the hard reality, if you try to express the untold stories to the so called closed ones, they are being made funny in front of them (which is never expected from them, leading to the heart breaks)
So its better that those untold stories die with you rather being made fun by the so called closed ones & getting hurt.
Opinions of your closed ones shall be valued, but only until they don't start interfering with your personal space & choices. Everybody wants to live life the way they want to whether or not others approve. Nobody else can control you except you yourselves.
Marriages are never made in heaven they are made by the destiny. Post marriage start loving in case of arranged marriages whereas in case of love marriages start accepting.
If life goes smoothly without any struggle, then it will cease to be interesting & you will be bored in the due course of time.
Arranged Marriage is getting into a long term contract & there is never anything as such Made for Each Other, we need to Make it for each other.
Love Marriage is not the ending of a love story. Its just the beginning of a life story.
So you are the only master of your life & need to take decisions which you would not regret later. You only live once & try to live it happily.
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