Should I wish my ex a happy birthday or not? Good question. I think the answer should be based on the answer to a second question you should ask yourself: "Does my ex hate me?
You probably have a pretty good idea of how your ex feels about you. If, when you are honest with yourself, you have to admit that your ex hates you, then the answer is no, you should not wish your ex a happy birthday. You should not communicate with your ex until you have reason to think that those hateful feelings have changed. Saying happy birthday to an ex who hates you and doesn't want to hear from you is not a way to get back together if that's what you're looking for.
But otherwise, yeah, go ahead and wish her ex a happy birthday. Just don't do it too aggressively. For example, don't show up at her ex's house out of nowhere, just to say happy birthday. Don't use an ex-girlfriend's birthday or an ex-boyfriend's birthday as an opportunity to talk.
If you are thinking about your ex's birthday in advance, it would be nice to send a card. Sending a card communicates some positive things about you. He says, "I got to act and planned it." And she says, "I'm not desperate to talk to you." It makes you look like you are in control.
If today is your ex's birthday (or there is no time to send a paper card), and you are likely to see your ex in person when you are just following your normal schedule, then say happy birthday when you get the chance. Otherwise, you can text or messages.
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However, calling is complicated because you only want to call once. If your ex responds, fine, but if not, you should leave a message. Even if you know your ex doesn't check messages, she leaves a message anyway because this is the only call you can make. If she hangs up without leaving a message, you can't call back because you don't want your ex to think that she called multiple times.
Only you can decide if it's worth calling for a chance to have a real conversation with your ex. If you haven't talked to her ex in a long time, then it's probably worth calling because of the possibility that your ex won't answer the phone, but knows that you called.
Calling more than once makes you seem desperate. So please leave a message and hope you get a reply. If you don't get a response, I think you should send a "late" card, rather than call back.
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