It's easy to get stuck in the same old routine and get bored with your sex life. Here are some sex tips that can help you improve your sex life.
Communication
Sometimes just asking your partner what they want is a great way to improve your sex life. If you don't know what your partner likes or wants, it will surely bring tension to your relationship. Avoid tension by asking how, when, and where they want to do it. Your answers can surprise and excite you at the same time.
Sexy text messages or phone calls
If you want to add a little spice to your night, send your partner a sexy text or voice message. It can really burn the libido and we all know that the anticipation is just as fun as the act itself. It can even inspire your other half to surprise you and leave work early.
Improve your fitness
If you are carrying a few extra pounds, you may want to consider a workout or exercise routine. That extra weight can impede your ability to maintain an erection or arousal. Losing weight and improving your health will not only benefit you physically but will also improve your libido. Ten pounds can make the difference between breathing heavily for fun and being completely out of breath.
Use body oil or gels for foreplay
There are many different waterproof gels and lubricants that you can buy without a prescription that will prolong or extend foreplay. K-Y Intrigue is one of my personal favorites as it is long-lasting and doesn't need to be reapplied frequently. It is not greasy or sticky. It's just a clear liquid that mimics your body's own natural love juices. Zestra oil is also a newer over-the-counter product for women that works great for increasing libido. There are many other brands that you can find at your local pharmacy or variety store.
Massage
Giving your lover a sensual massage is one of the most basic and underrated sexual advice I could give you. Everyone loves to be touched. It's very intimate and cool foreplay. It can definitely turn up the heat in the bedroom, especially if you use the oil from someone who reacts to their body heat!
Bubble bath
Taking a bubble bath together is a very sensual way to enhance your sex life. Water is very erotic in nature and when you put soap all over your partner's naked body it will make your juices flow. There are few things as intimate in nature as bathing your lover. If you really want to add sparkle, use your body as a sponge to wash them.
Positioning
There are endless positions you can try when you start to get bored with the same old stuff in the bedroom. Some positions can increase your pleasure and others can increase your laughs, but it's all trial and error until you find the ones you enjoy. There are many books and websites where you can search for ideas that may interest you.
Self-love
Oddly enough, loving alone is a great way to find out what turns you on and what turns you on. If you know what turns you on, you can pass it on to your partner. Mutual masturbation is a great way to get comfortable with each other and bonding too. You will learn what each of you likes and begin to incorporate that into your sexual routine.