The Blame Game

Sometimes, I wonder that every time a relationship ends or a marriage is over, how conveniently we blame either the third person or our circumstances. We never really blame the root cause who was with us all this while.

Well, from the perspective of a woman, what I see is that one woman always ends up blaming the other woman for her destruction. But, how do you overlook the man? How can you still accept him back if he comes running back to you asking for apology. You can kill the woman if there was no law in the country that you had to abide to. But, you are willingly ready to accept the Man in your life because he was your partner, he is the father to your children or probably just the fact that you're too dependent on him.

There are actually so many women in this country who are absolutely fine with all the abuse and sticks to their partner without even murmuring. There are women who overlook a lot of important issues thinking that they are over thinking about their spouses or their partners. If, there is any way it is out in the open then they resort to the blame game.

Blaming the other women will never defeat the fact that your own partner was equally guilty. If, you cannot forgive the third person then you should not forgive your partner as well. He is equally involved in this irrespective of the fact that who had actually made the first move.
No, matured individual can be manipulated into this. This is just your own way to calm your insecurity.

Sometimes, I think women often take this proverb too seriously that " Love is blind." Even if it was, the man you're staying with is probably not and if he has come this far then it's his choice of abandoning you and choosing someone else. If he doesn't think you're worth it, then it's you who should leave him and move on for your own good.