Your baby goes from sleeping through the night, to suddenly waking several times a night. They can't fall asleep, or stay asleep 2 Year Old Sleep Regression. They fight naps, bedtime, and wake frequently at night, often crying. Your baby is clingy, cranky and super needy during the day. You have ruled out illness, teething, and it's way longer than a few day growth spurt.
A sleep regression most commonly presents itself at around 4 months, 9 months, and 12 months. This is around the time that your baby is going through some major milestones: rolling, sitting, standing crawling, walking etc. What's actually happening with your baby is pretty interesting. Your baby is going through tremendous cognitive development. They are learning new skills and are practicing them in their head. Over and over, until they finally master the skill, which usually then terminates the regression. Your baby's brain during this time is in overdrive. Try to imagine for a minute what you feel like the night before a big event like going away on a vacation, or the night before your wedding. You stay up all night thinking about everything, making sure you don't forget anything. You toss and turn, and keep looking at the clock.
It keeps getting later and later and no matter what you do, you can't turn off your thoughts and just fall asleep. You start to get angry which makes it even harder to fall asleep. At this point you just want to scream! The next day you are over tired, cranky and just want to crawl back into your bed. This is exactly what's going on with your baby. Your baby can't turn off the brain work. She tries to soothe herself to sleep like she always did, but that doesn't seem to work. She often wakes up crying and screaming for your help, because she can't do it on her own. Your baby becomes overtired from all of this interrupted sleep, and ends up being cranky all day long.
So what do you do?
1.) Extra comfort during this time. Extra hugs and kisses. Try your best to settle your baby.
2.) Don't let your baby cry. Respond to her need.
3.) Pull out your bag of tricks (most of which you probably used when your baby was newborn). White noise, bouncer, binky, "lovie", whatever it takes to get your baby to sleep.You both need sleep, otherwise you will find it very difficult to make it through several week of this.
4.) Remember a sleep regression doesn't last forever, on average 2-6 weeks. Keep reminding yourself that this will pass, and your life will be back to normal soon.
5.) Sometimes there's not much you can do, but just tough it out. Stay strong, don't get frustrated, and take naps during the day to be handle the rough night
I have been through this and it's not pretty. My baby went from sleeping 12 hours to suddenly waking several times a night. I was so confused and frustrated, until my Pediatrician told me about the regression. Made total sense to me once it was explained. Brianna's sleep regression only last 2 weeks. I thought to myself "I have been through months of not sleeping, I can sure handle a couple weeks". So I just cuddled her more, responded right away, and even gave her extra feedings. I was so afraid that the extra feedings would be a major set back. I thought I would have to start sleep training all over again. But I knew she needed it during that time, and strongly believed that since she had already mastered the skills of falling asleep independently for several weeks, she would go back to that, once the regression was over. And guess what? That's exactly what happened. Once she worked out whatever she was working on in her little noggin, she immediately went back to sleeping 12 hours a night.