When you fall for a girl who rarely falls

She is pretty. She is attractive. She is smart. She is every man's dream. But it is not that simple. She is a lot more different than that. And if you think she is just the average kind of girl who will be easily swept off her feet with flowers and sweet words, think again.

She is pretty. But she is not that easy. She will not make things easy for you. You have to earn her trust-slowly but surely. She doesnt like to take things in a rush. She takes her time and she expects you to do the same. Now, you may send her dozens of flowers every week but you have to know that earning her trust, love and affection will take more than just the expensive flowers you send her. Because she is pretty, but never that easy. When you start sending her flowers, she knows exactly what you want. But more than that, she also knows exactly what she wants. So next time you call her pretty, know that she is and will never be that easy.

She is attractive-inside and out. Her looks, attitude and everything you see in her are so damn attractive. These things are what keep you so drawn into her sometimes you actually wonder what you saw in her. But it is not just about what you saw in her. It is about what you know about her. She is not made just to be seen as an attractive being, but one made to be understood with absolute certainty. You have to know her. Take notice of even the tiniest detail about her. Pay attention to what she is not telling you because what she does not say, she wants you to find out. At times she could be a riddle, but once you get to know her you will love her even more. An attractive girl like her is more attracted to a person who can unravel her. Dare to be that person. Do it patiently, creatively and consistently.

She is smart. One you can never deceive and one who only takes calculated risks. She thinks before she acts. She does not swim to the ocean of the unknown. Because she wants to be so damn sure. She is used to using her mind rather than her heart. She believes that there is more in logic than there is in magic. Now this is the hardest part because it will take more than just an effort to make her believe that it is worth taking the risk. You have to let her know and make her feel that you will be with her no matter what and will never leave her side. Because she may appear and she may be smart, but even the smartest girl has her fears and hesitations. Make her believe.

She is every man's dream. So it will not just be you. Many will try to get her attention and will try to break the walls she built around her heart. Do not be threatened. Once she starts to give you time-15 minutes of phone calls every night, 10 minutes before she gets back to the office or an hour of night walk in the park, that already means something. Because she doesnt make herself available to anybody. Prove to her that you deserve such time and you will not easily give up. Because she does not need someone who will try very hard in the beginning only to give up in the end.

Remember, everything that is worth something will always take time. She will teach you that. And you will love her even more for that. She takes time. And she will always be worthy of it. She will turn you into the kind of person you never thought you could be. This time, dare to be different. This time, it will be different. With her, it will be different. And when it is different, it is real.