BETTER LATE THAN NEVER
It took 25 years of my life to understand that I am not living in a fairy tale. The twists and turns of life gave me a blow so that I can see the reality of what I really want and what I really need from the people in my life. There is a big difference and yet a big similarity in both these words. For instance, if I want a dress, my desire for it can be either strong or half-hearted depending on several things. But I need oxygen to live and this need becomes a want if I am drowning in water. Both of them are fine in their places but what if they occur simultaneously. This state of mind leaves you vulnerable. When you truly love someone without any uncertainities, you crave for him/her from the depth of your soul which leads to an unyielding addiction. This helplessly makes you dependent on them for your emotional demands and you feel assurance or safety with him/her. Love creates a comfort zone or a refuge which makes you to run to the person and at the same time the same comfort zone can be dangerous to the other person as that is the zone they get hurt too. When want turns into a need, you push yourself into a situation where life becomes a puzzle to be solve alone without any route map or guidelines. We do not know about the exact time point when this want turns into a need so that we can be aware of protecting the relationship. But, underlying fact is "LOVE". Human beings seek love to be humane but when that love is from one's own self, a person can be peaceful and when it is from the other person, it is the security of being loved. Love has no definition. For me, Love should not be wanted or needed. Love is acceptance. Love is happiness. Love is a bliss which surges your life only when hands of both join together to form a bond and both people step ahead equally.
I have realized this " BETTER LATE THAN NEVER". This is my first work and I dedicate it to my love...THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU...