Simple as 1,2,3.... that's how we see life when we were young. We used to think that life is nothing but a wide playground with lots of playmate with different gender, age, size and nationality, and nothing could harm or wants to cause us pain. Yes!! Surprisingly..... it is already a world away, back when we were 5 until we are 10 then 15 then 20 and 25. Those are just five years in between, but each of them makes a lot difference. Difference that was caused by our adaptation to the environment we belong, when we were trying to win in each game when we were 5, how we defend our self from grade school bullies when we're 10, how struggle to fit in high school when we're 15, how we try to act like and adult at 20 and how we already know the world at its best and worst when we are 25. They are like our life's stepping stone, our first word, first eat, first sit, first step, only our mom is not there to smile and say 'very good' or 'my baby's a grown up'. Unfortunately, despite of passing all of those 'not so easy' struggles as we grow nobody's there to say 'you are amazing!' or 'that was exceptional'. This is cruel, yes it is! That's life, we have to clap for our self, we have to tell ourselves that we are amazing, that we exceptional, that we can do 'very good' at everything, and soon we'll realize that we are already grown up.