Often things go against us as if universe has its own plans of letting us down. And there we surrender,are you wondering how ?
I'll tell you what we often say,i'll focus on the mistakes we often make..
1.I guess that's how it's meant to be.
but who are we to decide what's meant to be and what's not,why can't we put an extra effort to make it the way we want it..but we believe in quitting..cause we hate moving out of the comfort zone we are cozily sitting in thinking that's how it's meant to be.
2.I am ugly enough to face the world.
I ask you today what is your criteria of someone being beautiful or ugly. What parameters do you judge people on. Only if you were confident enough you'd be the most beautiful lady to walk down the lane.
3.Let's leave it upon destiny
Yes that's what I have heard people saying often. But I want to know which book has our destiny written why not read it all and be prepared. Sounds fun, doesn't it ?
The problem is you don't have a book probably you don't have a destiny written,you are writing one so be the best seller you know (winks)..
This is just a tiny glance of our everyday thoughts and there's a lot much we go through. I guess once we stop relying on destiny and start trusting in the beauty of hard work this world would be a beautiful place to dwell in.