How many times do you have to give them chances? Honestly the only chance you should give is the one you think they should be given. IF they treat you wrong, well then you don't owe them anything. You shouldn't give them any special treatment. they treat you like crud then move on. forget then. forgive up to you.
There are people who will be glad to listen to you, be your friend, treat you as a human being, spent time with you and not take you for granted.
People who take you for granted should be left standing as they should. We all were taught to treat people kindly, we were taught common sense...but these people obviously have better things to do then treat human beings with respect. People overlook you, they don't treat you with acceptance, WHY SHOULD YOU GIVE THEM A SECOND LOOK?! WHY SHOULD YOU FORGIVE THEM? well forgive so you wont have hatred in your heart, trust me its best to forgive then have revenge...its better to be snow white then evil queen Regina. its better to be you then to act like Miley AND BE HANNAH- with double face. Its better to smile, make someone else day then to please someone who will look down on you as if you are some alien with three heads and two claws. Honesty goes along ways then rage does, it may feel weird at first. may feel weird to say hello to your worst enemie, but at end you wont be the one guarding Repunsal's tower, like a mad dragon, ready to conquer anyone who dares to look "funny" at you. Best to leave the hate closed behind a thorny door, open your kind, sweet, and the true you to the people who will regret their mistakes.
love people, love and forgive DON'T waste every chance you have to be better, to work hard, and don't forget to make mistakes..knowing that you can learn from them. DON'T harm people, forgive them...be better then what they make you to be. Innocent people get blamed for things they never do. Stay true to yourself and learn to forgive. Better to be open minded then closed minded being who treats others with no respect just because they lost their dignity and worth of value.
---Spoken by: Alena Cutshall