Happiness. Kahan ho tum ??

Hello guys !! back again. hahahah not really. I had been procastinating it for a whole month. But here I am. Writing to you. Trying to talk to you. Maybe you think this is a one sided communication. But no !! It is 2-sided. Uk how ??

 Whenever I sit and write a blog, I imagine saying it to someone I talk to. Now that could be you, right now reading this. Anyways, don't we all know how much hurtful can a one-sided communication be. How can I hurt you, right ?? :)

Vaise toh mai iss baar new year resolutions pe likhne wlai thi. But aaj, after a discussion I had with my WISE friends ( :P ), I have decided today we will talk about HAPPINESS.

Yeah fine, I know meko yeh topic bahut pasand hai and I finally end up on this topic in every blog more or less. But that is missing in our life anyway. Aur ek baat ko baar baar bolo, tabhi jaake smjh aati hai. ( Indians hain na. paidayishi dheeth :D )

Toh aaj firse ek sawaal. Happiness ka address kya hai ?? (sbse pehle meko hi bta do. bde dino se dhoondh rhi hu :) )

Ik ab tum soch rhe hoge.... yeh kaisa sawaal hai. And thats ohkay!! Coz agar koi meko bhi yeh poochhta toh mai bhi aise hi react krti, But koi toh jagah hogi na jahan log "happiness" ko SELL krte honge. Usse zyada koi availability meko toh ni lgta aaj kal hai. Kahin market mein stock ki kami toh ni hai ;)

Isse meko woh quote yaad aya. " Don't search for happiness at the same place you lost it." Pr bhai log, dhoondhne ki baat toh hm tbhi kr skte hain jab hmein pta ho ki woh hai kya.

But  I guess... hum toh woh bhi bhool chuke hain. Haan mana har bande ke liye happiness ki definition alag hoyegi. But instead of being different....we have strained into certain parameters. Haan you have dis... You can be happy. You dont have it... You are supposed to be sad.

But why don't we create our own happiness. (That is why I am writing this right now. Coz it makes me happy :) ) Achha btao happiness kahan se create hogi. jab people start judging what you feel. And such strong are the impacts that you suddenly start judging your own feelings. Ab iske baad bhi kahin happiness ka scope bach jata hai kya ?? Meko toh ni lgta.

Ik iske baad mai bol skti hu ki sbki baat sunna bnd krdo. Sabko inni importance dena chhod do. But since I have tried it already... I know that it won't make too much of a difference. So I wont suggest that to you.

Toh ab karein toh karein kya ??

Chalo suno. Yeh toh hm sbi ko pta hai ki kids are much much happier than us. So why not be the kid that you hide in yourself. Exactly. Stick your tongue out to small children. Pass smiles to people on street you don't even know. Sit in your room and eat a whole chocolate all by yourself ( I am still to do dis in my life though :P ).  Sing those nursery rhymes with your siblings.  Copy people on TV. Make faces behind people's back( or maybe on their faces. Jut don't blame me if you ever get punched. I have tried it and by God's grace, I have never been punched at least :P )

To end with it.... han han pta hai meko bahut bolti hu mai.... Yaar ek realization lif emein jitni jaldi ho jaye na. utne khush rhoge. Duniya toh tumhari khushiyon se jalti hai. toh tum kaise expect kr skte ho ki koi tumhari khushi ka reason bne. Don't give the key of your happiness into anyone lese's hand but your very own..!!