I' ve talked with a lot of people in my field. Knowing what are their greatest mistakes,thier regrets,their lowest moments,happiest moments, their future plans and goals.
There are times that they have struggles talking about it because it still hurts or they still cannot forget about it. There are times that they feel inspired and motivated to share more.
It opened my eyes to things. I learned to be a good listener,to be their safe zone, to be someone that will not judge them for their previous mistakes.
I learned that mistakes will always be mistakes if you never learn or admit them.
I learned that regrets will haunt you if you did not do things to make it right.
You will stay in your lowest if you keep thinking you are in your lowest.
But the most importante lesson I learned is that people always look forward to their future with someone.Someone that will hold their hand forever and love them with all their heart.
No one wants to be alone.We always crave human connection.
So love harder. Leave your mistakes and regrets in the past it does not belong in your present nor your future. Love yourself without the mirror. Appreciate what you have.
Be grateful for your past and for your existence.
Most importantly love and take care of the people that you want to stay in your future.❤️