Amazing things are brought forth---amazing things they say
Amazing.....where is the darkness in all of this?
They say and they show you the good (what you want to see) and not what you NEED to see and hear...
So why are we so blind when we get into a relationship? seeking only the good and seeping out the bad? A relationship isn't the same as a companionship---they are far to greater things in life and in life only.
Understanding and learning are used in same ways but mean 2 different things in, life.
Understand that you will go through good and bad times-
Learn that if you break up--that you must learn to heal and forgive, because you should have known what was going to happen. but yet you were foolish enough to get into it in 1st place. "learn from your mistakes" isn't it the same thing that your elders taught you to know? but you were-once again foolish not to care?
Understand that even if things do work out---they will always be tough, not a day goes by that you will strain to put effort your very best. Understand this---ALL TAKES TIME, GOOD AND THE BAD. LOVE, SORROW, AND FORGIVENESS. ALL OF IT IS TIME. AND WE DO NOT ALWAYS WANT TO TAKE TIME, NOW DO WE?
If you are both committed--stay that way. if you feel as though he or she is distancing themselves---let them go... i know because that's what happened to me. and I am trying to tell you that life in a relationship can be a storm. So take it as it comes, by storm or by the ship that you sailed on to get to it. "If it was meant to be it will always find a way"
You think that he is perfect. but he is. you seek out the good and leave out the bad. hmm (red flag). You find yourself in pain, because you fall in love overtime, and overtime he drifts apart from you, from what you though (at the time) was meant to be. But as we all see. It was not. You search a cure to your grasp that at the very moment is lost at the sea. You loose the grasp and fall into the pit of tears, salty as the sea itself...He walks away leaving you broken---and then you are in desperate search to the mysterious sickness. So what was it? Who caused the pain, the loss, the ever so love? It must have been you, I mean why did he walk away as though it was nothing? If it was meant to be...he would have stayed right? NOT AT ALL---IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE IT WAS MEANT TO BE---WORK IT OUT---THEY SAY, THEY SAY.
but you cant...you are in to much pain---you want it ended. you want nothing to do with the terrible pain, which began to seep out of your heart and down you cheeks and your eyes. So what was it? Who caused it? It must have been you, otherwise why did he leave?
He was in pain...he was hurt, he didn't want to hurt you by being with you? he had things to work on. it all came back to you! that he was making excuses...if he really,--- i mean REALLY cared. he would have found a way to stay and fight this sickness with you. The sickness---the pain---the ever HEARTBREAK.