Love hota kya hain?

 This is one of the questions for which I have no answer or may be I will never find one exactly. I love reading love stories and watching desi style Bollywood movies. Actually I am quite fascinated by the way the people project the same main plot (love of hero and heroine) again and again but still makes it a huge blockbuster success. Its like just by serving the same food time and again but yes certainly on a different plate makes it a whole new dish...!!!

So back to the main question what is"love"?? and my answer would be...

 I really don't know if love means chatting for hours on the phone.  Don't know if it is to say sorry and " I love you" infinite number of times for no reasons. Nor do I know if its like fighting like hell but at the end of it be back to normal... truly I don't know...!!

But what I certainly know is....

One type of love that is when you will be running temperature and a hand comes at night, touches your forehead and makes sure that you are feeling well before she goes to sleep. Who makes sure that you are comfortable in every walk of life. Who sees her dreams realize through your dreams . Who puts her family before herself. Who will always be with you through every thick and thin. This love is unconditional, pure and which exists till her last breath i.e.... the " love of your mum".

 Another version of love is when you just go to him and asks for extra pocket money and he gives it to you without any further questions. He who treats you like the princess of the world. Who is so patient to tolerate all your tantrums but makes sure you never go to bed empty stomach and also makes sure that all your wishes come true.Who can take all the pains in the world just to bring a smile on your face.. i.e ..."the love of your dad".

 The list for defining love still not ends here. Next is ...."the love of your brother". The strangest kind of love that one can experience in life. He is the one who loves you a lot but would never express that (unless he needs something from you). Who eagerly waits for an opportunity to pull your legs. He is the one who is the best critics in the world.Who always keeps you grounded by never praising you. But when you are in trouble he is the one to support you. He can never tolerate anyone else being the reason for tears in your eyes but surely finds pleasure in making you cry.

 To add on the sweetest love... is "the love of your friends ". Who can go to any extent to make you smile. Who can understand you before you understand yourself. Whenever you find yourself in sorrow, you find a soothing hand to caress you.Who make you fall, who help you rise.Who stands with you when you invite troubles.Who still believe in your vision when you have no signs of hope. With whom you share the top secrets of your life and do the unending list of craziest things ever. And such love brings a smile on your face when you think of them after a decade.

  Finally the most important one.. "the love of God". Without which it wouldn't have been possible for us to experience such lovely things in life.Who gives us each day a hope to prove and improve ourselves, to fulfill our purpose on earth.

And the list goes on.....and on......

So hope you understood what exactly love is......well , if yes then please tell me for I still can't describe "love".

with lots and lots of love...

Arshi_tianshi