A girl who has a fear of losing her freedom in her future married life, fantasies her life to get inverted as follows:
"Many days I've wondered that why my mom is so house addicted, and I've felt her as a poor little country-side woman, whose voice is not heard, who is forced to give up everything for her family's happiness, whose freedom was wholly lost!!!! But now i can see my future, in which my life gets inverted as my mom's.
all my thoughts, my independence, freedom, everything will be gone!!!!! FOREVER!!!!!!!
i'll be forced to lose my happiness and identity. i'll be forced to feel my happiness in the happiness of the others. i can't be what i'am, i should be what they think of me.
I will be forced not to argue, but to keep dumb always. A poor woman who has to sacrifice everything, including her dreams for her family!!!
my dressings, accessories, hairstyle can't be according to my wish!!!
I will be forced to change even my attitude (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) thereby losing me!!!!!!!!!!!"
Don't get committed just because of silly reasons!!!! don't lose your identity!!!
Your partner should be the one who respect you, your freedom, your independence, your attitude, your passion and your heart, so that you need not change the YOU in you.......
Similarly, love and respect the Other's passion and their heart which expects to be treated with immense dignity as you do, and expect not to change them as per your views!!!!!!!!!! love them as such :)