In this hypothetical world, we come across every second parent presenting his or her own list of certified complaints that each one of them has with their children.
N i mean you just have to pull the trigger and bang on ! The conversation seems to be never ending.
If I talk about myself I belong to the age group where I find myself settled in my work and no sooner my family would definitely want to see me settled the other obvious way too.
So I probably keep myself in both the situations of a parent and a child and well analyze nicely.
The parents these days, undoubtedly should raise a finger at their ownself too without cribbing about how their children turn/turned out to be.
These days the most FAQ of a parent to a child is, "what exactly is your phone going to give you ? Why are you attached with it like a leech?" But well my answer to this would be, "Exactly the same that it gives you- which is what the utmost basic need today"
Like in an era of socializing and smart systems, you want and you are adamant that your child should live in the system without the system putting any impact on him/her.
Don't you think that's pretty well not the solution. The moral should be to prioritize life by balancing each and every thing including the basic trait of socializing (which definitely makes the kid smarter and wiser) .
On the other hand, I was in a club with some of my friends and in an aura of loud music and dim lights(not so good for a kid of what 4 or 5 to enter) : you are compelling the child to dance !!!
Can't it be more worse than that ?
The child on the other hand wasn't able to mix her up in that environment and thus started crying. To my surprise, the mother hits the child for misbehaving and crying ! Can you please tell me why??
And then when the same girl would grow up and ask you the permit to groove and dance, you ll show a STOP sign!! What kind of rationality is that???
Mothers always come up to me (me being an academician) saying that my child is too small to talk like a matured lady or matured man! And when she or he does that you feel weird and start cursing the child or would start finding flaws in him or even better would cut off all his ties with friends (probably you think that children of 7 or 8, being contemporaries would teach each other how to behave like that: commendable enough) !!
And what's more the other day the same very child being victimized is accompanying his or her mother to her famous kitty circle !
So now is it not clear where are the traits coming from !
My article is not at all meant to degrade the parents in any way! They are above all and should be respected at all times.
My point is to understand the simple thing that every problem comes with a readymade solution. My request to all the parents is to analyze the problem well and I am sure once you do that you would not even realize when your child grows up smoothly to become one wise person in the times to come !
Written #withlove
And loads of respect for my parents !
#Godbless this eternal bond ❤❤