Being in this world full of shitty and crappy people, is an adventure in itself. The way you handle them, keeping your mind and soul at ease, is the biggest challenge in our lives nowadays.
With a 22 year long experience of living among these people, I kinda have some categories of people that happen to be around me.
Firstly are the "double-faced" people. They bring out the worst in me. Saying something in front of people, doing the exact opposite, is what they are known for.I guess I did meet a lot of 'em in my journey of life. My suggestion to such people is straight and simple ..... "What are you trying to hide?? You're true self.... !!!! Do you really have one?"
Second come the "fake planners". They pretend to have a lot going on their minds and try to plan and give ideas to everyone.. but when it comes to execution of the same plans, they are the last ones to do it or may be even not do it. They beat the shit outta me as they always want their say.. which is, in reality, nothing. These people never listen to what others say or want to do.... My suggestion to them.... "Don't bother making a map, when you are never gonna go on a road trip"
Next are the "straight poles". Always rigid and never changing. At some extent, it is good if you are stable in your life but changing is the rule of this world. You change, only then you evolve. They always turn up to be the spoil sport in any plan in which they are not comfortable in. I have had the "pleasure" of meeting many such "friends". My suggestion to them would be..."Don't wanna grow? Then DON'T....!!!! let others....."
Next are the "all legs in different boats". I don't have any grudges against them. They don't make me angry too. Its just their way of living that I pity. I just want people living their lives to the fullest and thinking that as if it is their last day alive. Doing many things at a time always messes with our lives and makes our lives goal-less. People living their lives without a goal are just like tree without roots. They perish!!! My only suggestion to them would be.... "Choose a goal out of the many that you have....put all your energy in it and.... BAMM ..!!!! you have it".
Last are the people that actually care. Though this category has the least percentage of people(at least in my life.... :( ... ),They love you unconditionally, be with you when they are needed the most and never fail to bring a smile on your face even in the worst of times. They should be an inspiration for all, as they manage to keep their originality even in this world full of crap.
What do I wanna be??
I have always wanted to be one of the caring lot in everyone's lives(i.e people who care about me!!!! :p). My life motto has always been ..... "Give each person what they deserve.... no less...no more". It always saves the confusion and the anger that builds in our relations.