Sometime we feel so low that we start comparing ourselves to people who really means nothing to us.And you know why?because its very easy to compare yourself and find out your deterioration or of anyone else then to strongly stand for yourself and fighting from both the world and your mind.
I don't understand when we get low marks,not complemented by the people for our looks,personality and much more,failed in some situation then why we started comparing our lives with the life of our friends ,relative,neighbour and sometimes with the fake life of actor or actresses in movies.I'll tell you both it's reason, consequences and how to overcome it.The first reason is whatever task we had done we have not given our 100% and because of that somewhere down in our heart we know we would fail in that task .Secondly because of the lack of confidence we doubt our abilities which creates dissatisfaction in our hearts and thirdly when we see people around us happily engaged in their lives because of that dissatisfaction, jealousy starts overruling our heart over mind and then we started comparing ourselves with those people without even thinking that everyone is fighting it's own battle, some our fighting with confidence and happy heart and then there are people like us who are fighting with already half burned heart.Till now these were all the reason now the consequence-a big debut between heart and mind and definitely no conclusion is coming out leading to frustration,insomnia,headache,stress,irritation,etc.The biggest lost of them all is"you'll lose yourself".We don't know how precious we are to our family and friends.We need to overcome this insecurity created in our mind and this can only be cleared by one way that is "STOP comparing!".Till now did anyone noticed that we compare ourselves to only those people who have healthy and wealthy lives and not with those who has less than what we have or who has lost something really precious and incredible and still they are happy and living their lives with satisfaction.Now start comparing yourself you'll get your answer by your inner soul and remember your inner soul will never misguide you.
Even after this if you'll feel jealous then start visiting hospitals and temple or mosque or church and try talking to people who are suffering from problems and try to understand their situation ,surely you'll realize that your pain is nothing in comparison to them.Hopefully then after you can realize your value.I will end my thought by sharing a nice quote by Adolf Hitler “Do not compare yourself to others. If you do so, you are insulting yourself.”