Everybody is alone. Everybody is trying to cope with something. Everybody has a story. Everybody needs to be heard. And more often than not I've seen not even know what it is they are actually hurting about. They know what they are sad about, but not what is really, deep down, troubling them.
We when consoling somebody crying say, "C'mon, stop crying... Let's go out and do whatever you like."
And sure it helps you feel good. But that's only till you are not feeling good again. Where we as a community have ended up is, if we are not happy, we are most of the times, sad or angry. If you want to put it one word, we are hurt.
We desperately want to be heard, but are too scared to tell anybody. Each of us has a reason for this.
Maybe we do not trust anybody to keep it between the 2 of us.
Maybe we do not trust anybody to keep not judge us for it.
Most of us in our heads know, that instead of listening, people will just ask to stop feeling whatever you are feeling.
Maybe we want to be heard, but do not really want a proper answer or a solution to it, just for somebody to say, "I hear you. I understand. I'm there if you need me." and nothing more.
I maybe have this trait in me, that I want to help everybody I can, to get out of this fear of sharing. But maybe I cannot do it alone if the rest of the people around them are being a wrong environment.
But the truth we cannot always change our environment or the people we hang out with.
Maybe, sometimes, in order to cope with our hurt, we act like assholes to other people. Maybe, it gives us a sense of being in control, because when it comes to our feelings, we are not.
Maybe for other people, this behavior of ours is the reason for their hurt.
This world is stuck in a loop.
We all need a break, but taking a break would mean not running for a long period of time in this rat ace.
And whenever somebody is fine with taking a break, the rest of the world moves on. Because they have their own shit to deal with. Which makes that person even more alone.
Maybe everyone is equally miserable, and some are just better at hiding it than others.
I want to help everybody, any way I know, but right now, do not even know where to start.