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Now, I know the word addiction usually has a negative connotation when you're addicted to drugs or addicted to destructive behavior. Still, you can also become addicted to constructive behaviors that are life-giving, healthy habits like eating healthy or exercising or love in and of itself.
And so, as you hear these three behaviors, I encourage you to use them for good in your life. Use them to help expand and support the love you're giving and receiving with your man. So the first behavior that draws men to you and wants to spend more and more time with you is to think more and more about you, and being with you feels good.
What feels good to men isn't the same as what feels good to women
on a generalized scale. When I ask women in my coaching program to close their eyes and visualize the relationship they would love, I then describe how they feel in that millionaire dating relationship. Almost always, these two emotions are that they feel safe and feel safe and secure.
And it's fascinating because when you ask men to close their eyes and visualize being in a relationship and how they would love to feel, you'll be hard-pressed to find a guy that says, I want to feel safe, and I want to feel secure. The vast majority of men are not saying that. Why? Because generally speaking, a woman moves in and through the world, she's got a safety on our mind, she doesn't feel safe. She is not feeling a hundred percent secure; men, on the other hand, have no comprehension of that for the most part, they're feeling safe; for the most part, they're feeling secure.
What a man will say he wants in a relationship is fun. What feels good to a man in a relationship is fun. The more fun you're creating, the more fun you're having together, the more he's likely to become addicted to that experience because the better it will feel, the more he feels good, the more of those experiences that he will want.
So when you're hanging out with your man, notice what percentage of the interaction are things that are fun in nature, light-hearted, life-giving, expansive, versus drama or depressing topics, critical topics, heavy topics, those things. At the same time, it might feel like you're going deep and forming a bond and connection with him over those topics. What you're missing is the fun aspect.
And the good news is you can create fun just by focusing on it. We value creating joy, laughter, and fun in all aspects of our lives. So when you dial up the fun, you will dial up his desire for you. The second behavior is an investment. You see, as human beings, we are wired up to value what we put effort into.
But they found out that people who assembled their furniture went into what's called cognitive bias, where they have a disproportionately higher value on the table because they made it. In other words, they desire it more because they invested in making it. And so you take two pieces of furniture, one that the person made, one that the person didn't make, they will pay more money for the table that they make than the furniture they don't drive, they let their customers make it.
This was mind-blowing for business owners. And the same thing is true in relationships: when you invest in something, you value it more, the same way that you love a relationship that's longer more than you value a shorter relationship. Why? Cause you've got more invested, you've got more time invested, emotional connection supported, more investment all the way around.
So how can you invite a man to invest in the rich men dating relationship? Accessible, by holding standards. Your standards are investment opportunities. You get to decide your standards, you're the highest authority, but every standard that you have, a standard where you say this is what's required to kiss me, this is what's needed to take me on a date, this is what's needed before these other things happen.
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