More often i come across people who have sorted hearts and confused brains. They know what exactly they like, love and possess within themselves but are too confused or afraid to accept it. Their brain does not permit them to let loose and surrender to the facts known by their heart.They forget but do not forgive.
To the contrary, I have a sorted brain and a confused heart. I tend to analyse the situation from all point views. Which makes me forgive people and calming my brains but keeping my heart to heal itself . So i tend to be less angry and more (heart) aching.
Their is no right or wrong in both the conditions. Mindset is just a sculpture which is being carved by the society, environment, books we read and our beliefs. Again to clarify, beliefs are what we believe in, and mindsets are how we put our beliefs into action. Like, a person may believe in God, but may still have an evil Mindset.
An art, a passionate love, a particular place may bring out the correct set of mind within you. But for that you will have to keep searching on and on, not in the outside world but within yourself. Brains open and Hearts strong and golden one can strive for a better life with good Mindset.