I love psychology. I like having deep conversations, which brings out the hidden person from us. Talking to dear once, spending time with them only lets you know the person they appear to be. I don't like to know anyone I like to understand them. For knowing a person is not enough to build your connection, on the other-hand, understanding a person makes it easy for you to create a bond with them Many-a-times you realize that people are not what they appear to be. The person you think is most practical and focused comes up to be the most confused and emotionally destroyed. The one you think is enjoying his life to the fullest is actually trying to heal the past wounds. Understanding a person leaves me surprised & astonished. It makes me think & conclude that in real " First impression is NOT the last one ".
I have come across a lot of people who appear rude,introvert,aggressive and selfish. They actually are whatever they show,but,the reasons & limitations of that person changes my views to look at them. Very few are inborn selfish but a lot of them are of this kind due to sufferings. When I feel a person is being too bad or too good, I decide to understand them knowing them by believing whats been said & put up. This gives me a brand new experience of what kind of people may exist.
It is always better not to judge a person just by knowing them. And when you start understanding them you don't really feel the need to judge them. You just Don't ! :)