That's what they say about meeting people. They are either a blessing or a lesson. You meet people everyday, strangers, friends, colleagues even family members. Some people have great effect effect on us like our family members or friends. And others leave effect on us like strangers..maybe. You might meet a stranger in a subway or in a bus or even while walking in the street and, they leave such a great effect on you. Eye contact..oh eye contact is very dangerous. It can do so many things to a person. We meet strangers everyday and everywhere. In the street, at work, at places we go, everywhere. You meet new people and get to know them. If you like them, you let them in. If you don't, then you don't. And the other way round from the other side. You let them in, you start first to get along with them, you get comfy telling them stuff about.. maybe life. You let them in more, you become a little closer, you start telling them things about.. yeah this time about yourself.
You both start to share things about life about work about everything. You get closer by default, even if you don't want to. Its quite the attraction and interests your both share or you both have. You get more curious to know about them, you tend to be somehow pushy with them, which might lead to burden them.
Here comes the point of boredom..
You start to ask questions in your head, and subconsciously build assumptions based on nothing but in your own head. And based on these illusions, you start answer questions which hasn't been questioned already! You both start to fight over nothing! It's just the things locked up in your sick mind.
And another point of misunderstanding and mistrust..
You start to doubt every single thing they do. You don't fully trust them as you used to before. And all of these fights are just based on misunderstanding.
No one has time to recap or rewind what happened.
No one will try to rectify a situation.
Don't judge people based on assumptions.
You have your own tongue.
Speak your fucking mind.
Ask. Know.
And even after this, don't judge.