There is a lot of advice on how to get a right person for you. But I'll tell you something, there is no right person in this world. When you love him, your standards went away.
You have an ideal man, I know it. But when you met him, all of the ideal stuff are gone. You are just gonna love him the way he is, adore his every movement his existent. He became your happiness, he ain't right person. Because he is the person who makes you happy, a person who appreciate you and loved you.
There is no right person or a perfect person for you. But there is a one person out there who is born just to be with you. A person you can call a friend, a lover and a family.
Don't look for a person that have your standards. But look for a person, who you can tell your stories and you can be honest with him. Find a man who can't judge you, that no matter how bullshit you we're in the past, it doesn't matter to him.
Look for a person whom you can find happiness, tranquilty and safety in each others arms. And most importantly find a man who can tell you his dreams, and be part of it. Look for a man who have dreams for both of you. Look for a man who only wants you and only you. A man who can love you in every beat of his heart.
Love,
Kapono Moonblood