Overcome negativity

Have you ever felt useless? Not good enough, compare to others? Feel miserable with the life that you have? Whenever you look yourself that way, how does it feel? It definitely feels bad. The pain is like piercing your heart by a needle, then realizing your worth is nothing. If it hurts, why continue doing so? Just stop, stop doing something that will make you feel in pain. 

To overcome this, you can follow suggestions below.

1. Compare yourself to yourself. If you are doing something, compete with yourself. It means that whatever you do, do it better than what your previous self did. In that way, your growing healthy and more determined to go beyond what you can do. It's like pushing yourself to your next limitation. After successfully achieving your goal, tap your self and say 'Good Job'. Stay humble 'coz that really matters. 

2. Every thing happens for a reason. A better reason definitely! Just treat every failure as a thrust for a big leap of success. Like how a slingshot works, you have to move backwards and prepare for a long shot. Whenever I see myself in that situation I always say to myself 'His plan is better than my desire.' God is preparing something big for you, so do not waste your time for something that is less. Something big and better is in its way. And I trust this so much. Failure is a room for learning. It teaches you to learn not committing another mistake; it is called experience.

3. Stop over thinking. Give whatever questions you have in mind to Him and He will act his ways mysteriously. 

You only live once, be happy because it is a choice. Don't go harsh to yourself, anyway YOURSELF is the only version of you that can listen and understand you well. Just be open to YOURSELF, it will not undermine your personality. Trust me.