Priority..!

Everyone has their own definition of right and wrong...likes and dislikes... And I get that.. But what I dont get nowdays is that people have stopped doing anything for others... Like I remember.. What I am told or how I am brought up...that sometimes you might have to do something that you might not eant to do or like.. But if its making your near ones smile.... Dont give it much thought.. You will be much more happy then...  :) And I belived that.. and try to follow it maximum times.. obviously I wont say that I do it 100%.. sometimes I am also stubborn.. But I try to make sure that the cost is not that much in terms of other persons peace of mind...   

But now... . world is being run  on ones own convenience.. 'Effort' is missing... That selflessness is missing... Doing something for someone without mentioning is missing... Thought is missing... Warmth is missing..... Does that mean people are becoming more materialistic..? ummm.. No.... I guess they are just too occupied with themselves.. What suits them... and then they try to portray their actions like they did a particular thing for someone else when the whole time.. consciously or sub consiously their purpose was their own satisfaction and their own preferences...

Purity in any relationship is the essence.. It can be felt straight away.. at least I can feel it... But I see that rarely now.