Snowflake

There are far more better things in life than worrying about what others think of you.

This has become a mantra to me. 

Do not compare yourself. You're unique. You're a snowflake.

As we grow older, we come to discover life's fainter tinge of color. That not every day is a different hue. That, it can also be back and white. Or grey. Or totally black. 

We live every single day experiencing almost everything. From love to hate. From happiness to melancholy. From abundance to lack of it. Every day is a challenge. And challenges need to be overcame. We shouldn't stop just because you think your life just ended there. We need to lok for the brighter side.

And where do we look for the brighter side?

First, assess yourself.

Are you living the way a person of your age must live? Are you behaving the way a girl like you should behave? Are you making the most of your every day?

Second, your friends. 

They are there for you. Always. Remember that. If you say you don't have one, you can have your sister, your brother as your friend. Almost anyone. Be open by being secretive. Let them know but not all.

Third, your family. They are your home. One thing's that you come home to when all of it became unbearable that you just want to breathe. You can breathe at home.

Above all, there is Him. All of your sufferings, your pains. Surrender them to Him. And He will heal you. 

Smile. You are unique. A snowflake.