Okay that is my first question
what is life ?
and what is life all about?
chilling? texting? fun n frolic? dissapointment ? hell ? cool?
or getting high grades?
scrolling facebook walls all day?
ah-hah! that is not life..they all are a part of life..but not totally life!
failures,defeats,victories,success,tears,happiness,ups,downs,that and this,fights,misunderstandings and everything!
When your e happy..u describe life to be awesome
when your sad..u describe it to be like "freaking hell omg"
and when your angry u describe it to be "crap i hate my life"
all this is mood-based and judgmental
but at the end of the day..life is a bumpy ride!
what u have got to do about is merely nothing..because u just cant stop the flow of life..but then u can only change YOUR actions and deeds for the better of ur life..
i strongly believe in "you are the creator of your own destiny "
and your life depends on what you do..whatever you give...you will get back the same..do good ..u get good back..and if u do bad...u get even worse.
life is something which cannot be described..because..as far as i have seen ...all the homo sapiens living on this blue planet are JUDGMENTAL.
Some great person said .."intolerance and impatience is the result of an inadequate education whereas profound education breeds humility"
Oh yes! that is true!
and education here does not mean academics.
it means knowing your moral values.
knowing what should actually matter what should not.what should bother you and what should not.what is right for u and whats not.what is to be given importance and what is not needed.how to deal with certain situations in life..how to handle them and tackle them.
a person might be very good at academics,high grades,98% or whatever..but if he does not have proper discipline and morals. his high grades are of no value!
being judgmental and ASSUMING things will take your path nearer to distress but not success!
assuming is the worst thing any one can do.
never assume!
Swami vivekananda..a very great person indeed.
he said "you are the creator of your own destiny"
and that is what i believe the most.
we are the engineers of our own lives!
whatever we are today..it is only because of us and not anyone else!
blaming god for our fate is not right!
whatever is happening..or has happened..or will happen is only based upon YOU!
An intelligent person will listen to what the other person says and tries to understand..
a person who thinks he is intelligent will hear you but not listen to you.
there is a difference between hearing and listening.
listening is grasping. hearing is only receiving the sound waves from the person.
only a good listener can be a good orator. and while being a good listener..be careful about what you are listening..everything in the universe does not need YOUR attention!
Life is not the same all the time.we do face some difficulties.
And at this time..we forget the world around us and start cribbing and crying.
Now that is where you are actually messing up!
always understand one thing..past and future are the only fears and tears of a person..but then today,at this moment,both the past and future do not exist!
why worry about something which does not even exist at this point of life?
mistakes are a part and parcel of life..there is absolutely nothing wrong if u make mistakes but the only thing u have to make sure is DO NOT REPEAT!
because when u repeat a mistake..its not a mistake anymore!
its YOUR CHOICE.
and in all this process ..start accepting things!
something happened?..okay it happened..that is fine..i will face this till the end of it! that is the spirit we should have and not "omg!!! something happened..i cant take this! god help me i cant come over this" ......NO!
whatever has happened ..it is not going to eat up your life..calm down..take a deep breath and accept it and believe me u will be relieved :)