#articleaboutCOMFORTZONEAndCHANGE #mywords
Leaving something☹️: It's similar to running🏃 the 29th round of your 💯 round goal where you feel like giving up 😥completely and consider that as the best option available and possible.
But....but, when you be patient and go on with your will power 💪 dominating your thought of giving up, you gain the power to be unstoppable until the last round. I think this is a perfect metaphor for leaving something. It takes everything, your mental energy, your will to fight, your family's help , your friend's support almost everything not to give up and not go back living in your past again and again and leave that pity party forever and move on in life.
•Leaving people. Leaving places. Leaving your comfort zone. Starting over. Different names but a single meaning. CHANGE.💥
It's in our genes probably, to stay in our comfort zone, to never come out of that cave called safe zone that we build. We start civil engineering that cave unknowingly from the day we become conscious of our surroundings. Probably from the day we open our eyes for the first time. First we lay the blueprint. Then some incidents lay the foundation. Then we go on building it until the last day, the last minute, until the last breath of our life. Then we realize that we spent too much time trying to build a cave that's open inside out. And it was all a lie. And we realize that we put too much effort into something that....something became nothing.
As we all know that 'Nothing is a black hole absorbing everything in its way.' It's almost like you were sitting next to a small cute black hole that sucks all the happiness💫, all the positive thoughts💭 (all built by you and by all I meant the black hole🕳️too) and still expect things that come your way to be good when the whole time it's been feeding off them. That's another metaphor (black hole) for a metaphor(cave aka safe zone). And I have a four letter word which starts with "f" and ends with "k", that you should recite to yourself alongside 'my comfort zone' until you really understand it.
Yes, At first you feel like losing yourself but remember that, you're losing that harmful self that kept you from living life to the fullest. You will have to go through a lot of pain if you are a dealing with a person here, but remember it will all be worth it at the end. And you should know that life's always just outside the comfort zone. It stops you from 'Being you', when that's the most awesomest way you can ever be in this pretentious, jarring, sycophantic world.
Change is 'The Hardest Thing' until it is done. But remember the harder it is, the stronger you become, the farther you move on, the more you grow near to that inner bliss. All I want to say is "We live in a dynamic,ever changing world. No day is similar to the coming day, no hour is similar to the next hour, no minute to the next and Change is the only adaptation we have, To survive and live. Make the outside of your comfort zone your comfort zone(it's a paradox, I know) and start looking at the change that changes your life.💃
Thank you for bearing with me.
All the Love ♥️
Vaishu.