So let me tell you about all my stories..
Relationships are hard, divorces are harder. When i was three years younger than today, i went through a divorce. My ex remarried in less than 6 months and has a baby now who is more than a year old. Well i have to admit, he was my best and closest friend, but not my man, not Mr Right, or the one as they say it. I wasn't his either. But let me assure you we were friends for 7 years, ever since I lost my mom, even a little before that. He witnesses every bit of pain and suffering I went through, listened carefully and waited to me to get better and be the woman he wanted me to be. Unfortunately I never became a woman in the first place except after a while.of our divorce. The experience was painful and I hated h for a while, but he never did. He was a great friend, but nothing more. So this is the main reason when someone is in the friend zone I keep them there! I don't know what I would do if i came across a friend who is not my love and might break his heart. Btw i lived in guilt for about 2 years, questioning why i did not stop before it's too late, so now I can't afford the risk. Not any more. And I will keep wondering if my love is stuck in my friend zone and i will never know he was even there..