Ways To Move On

Moving on is the hardest part in the love cycle. It's not about forgetting the person you loved before but it's about accepting the fact that you cannot be together anymore. Yes it's hard at first but as the time goes by you will then realize that it's not that difficult. So I will give you some tips on how you can move on.

1. Abide
Abide the cycle of love. Remember that it ends because you're not for each other or it's not the right time for the both of you.

2. Complain about everything
Complain about the things that you want to complain. Let your anger out, letting your emotions out will help you to move on easily.

3. Cry
Cry as long as you need to cry. Don't mind your appearance for a while, just cry until you're tired of crying. Cry until you feel that the pain is becoming lesser.

4. Endure
Endure the pain. Listen to music that you can relate with if possible, read books about motivation and do whatever you're comfortable doing to relieve the stress.

5. Put everything that reminds you of him/her away
You can either dispose the things he/she gave or keep it where you cannot see it. You can also donate it but NEVER EVER give it back to him/her because it will just cause you trouble and it will become harder for you to move on.

6. Talk
Talk with your friends and family. Having communication will lessen your urge to communicate with your ex.

7. Allow yourself to be free
By being free, I mean that let yourself be free from sadness, anger, and any negative thoughts and emotions. You can go and treat yourself in the mall or you can call your friends and ask them to hangout with you.

8. Never ever try to talk to ex
Talking with your ex is a very risky thing to do. It can make you crawl back to him/her and it can make the feelings back again. So never ever try to talk to your ex.

9. Close the issue
Think about what happened or why did your relationship end and never let it happen again with the next person you will fall inlove with or with your ex IF you go back to each other. Don't talk about it to everyone anymore because it will just make you regret and overthink again.

10. Enjoy
Enjoy your life of being single, make new friends and go to the places you want to go. Do whatever you want to do as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone.

The word from the first letter of every tips I gave, A C C E P T A N C E, is the key for you to easily move on. Just accept the fact, let go, endure the pain and enjoy life. Heal yourself, give yourself some time and think about what went wrong so that if someone knocks in your heart again you can allow him/her and you'll not make the wrong decisions and doings again.