When "You Smile, I Smile" concept became boring ..

We all have heard this right that love is one of a kind. But then Love is more of a process these days.

You talk to someone, you get attracted by their looks, by their behaviour or any particular thing about that person might attract you.

Then you try your best in a race of impressing that someone. Because you realise you aren't the only person who is looking forward to a future with your attraction.

Because people are so free these days, they race for impressing other's.

Those cheesy lines, those dinner plans of late night's. Then making each other feel comfortable. And then the comfortableness reaches a level where you can confront each other without any sleeves, without any make-up, submitting each other in your natural skin's.

Well even now if you read this process you'll feel that's what we naturally behave for getting someone we want , right!! but is it so ?

See I agree Love is a concept which will never lose its charm and will always remain beautiful even if it's in fakeness's arm's.

But what's fake will remain fake right ..!!

Not love is fake but not all people who confess their love to someone are real. Some are just scavengers looking for that natural piece of skin, after all Love's process is not that hard to learn.

And when they get what they want, they repeat the same process with someone else and then someone else, they never wish to retire and thus leaving behind many broken people and with many broken heart's.

Obviously no one can judge who's right and who's not.

Everyone wants someone to love ..

But if we can't tell if the person we are imagining to be our everything is just here for momentary pleasures or for being your forever, then why to give Love so much of importance..?

Why to melt on those cheesy lines like "You Smile, I Smile".

See, if Love is more of a process now, why to entertain this process and leave our emotions in a gamble, which if the other person turns right, you win, but if the to be expected forever guy turns wrong, you feel devastated.

No doubt love exists and can not be removed from this universe, but then if you see someone following the process why fall for it, and give yourself totally in haste ?

There is a loophole in this love's process which people have found and now have started tricking other's.

But then, you can create a own process of Love for your partner, instead of the old cheesy method.

Think about it, we have always fallen for people who did exactly the same which the old Process has been portraying.

And that's why many of us have tastes that taste of brokenness.

So why not create a own process of Love, which no other can follow ?

Let me know what you think of this ..

I'll pray each one of you get a partner you deserve 🤞🏻

Sending my warm wishes to everyone.

Your Well-Wisher
Dev