Women to Men

Before anything else, I would like to put into your understanding that women are not male accessories, that we do not live solely to please men and that we do not exist just to be controlled by men. 
Women has the right to do whatever we want to do and be who we want to be, simply because we want to. However, most of us failed to realize that. We have the tendency of shaping ourselves the way we thought men would love. I'm not saying it's wrong but should we really give men the power to dictate our being? Or should we just let them see deeper through us and accept us for who we really are?

 So what if you drink alcohol once or twice after a long rough week? So what if you wear clothes that shows off a little bit of your skin, when you can still act modest? So what if you are no longer a virgin? You don't need to be a virgin to be witty and intelligent.

My point is, you can still make your own decisions as to what and who you are. You shall never get discouraged about being who you are, who you want to be and even who you were, as long as you bring more to the table than just your looks.

Because truth is, men really wouldn't stick around and take you seriously just because you're fun and pretty. You might seem to feel wanted for a short period of time because you're hot and all. If you feel okay in this kind of arrangement, you shouldn't be surprised when sooner or later he'll drop you off for a newer model. 

And as for men,  you better stop assuming that you know how a woman should act and how a woman should be, because you don't. Stop concluding that you have some deeper understanding of a woman you just met merely by looking at her, because you don't! You really have to stop doing that because you don't know her and you can't take basis simply by just listening to stereotypes.

Moreover, stop calling a woman hoe for having sex with more than two men. Stop calling a woman slut because she don’t dress like your idea of a saint. Stop calling a woman bitch, just because she's more comfortable wearing make up; but lastly, stop focusing on what you see from the outside, get to know her more and try to look through her soul, her story, her goals and dreams but most of all, her being. You might be surprised by how she's all that and more.