A Beautiful Transformation

What more can a person ask for, if he/she owes a "Best Friend" as his/her "Lover" ??? Isn't it a wonderful relation to experience??....Well, no doubt ..It is.It also becomes special because the two people involved in it get to cherish  the two most beautiful relations of all in one relationship. Such people are definitely blessed. I guess, this aspect between them gives an upper hand to them in terms of understanding each other and also in understanding the silence of each other.

Most of the times in relationships other than this...there exists a very little or negligible space for friendship between the two people. Obviously, the feelings of being a "Lover" dominate even if the two of them decide and try to sort out  their problems as friends (sometimes , if one is ready ..the other is not). The dominance of special feelings is quite a natural thing to happen and as a result, things don't work out.

In the case, where "Friendship" transforms in to "Love", most of the problems between the two people can be sort out as being "Best Friends" rather than being " Lovers" and I guess, it is one of the best ways to overcome obstacles in a relationship. It is significant to note that in such relationships at a first place, the importance is given to friendship followed by special feelings for each other in case of any problem( for discovering solutions). It is the very right thing to do in a relationship. Also , the people involved in such relationships owe a bonanza of moments and memories to make and cherish throughout their lives...first as being friends and then as being lovers. This takes their relationship a level up. Isn't it a beautiful thing to happen??...Well, It is just the one side of the coin.

The other side of the coin states that...IT is extremely challenging to maintain the same tangent of friendship as before and to act as a best friend when once friendship turns into love in any situation. Infact , I guess.. it is somewhere more difficult to not let special feelings dominate the friendship in a relationship.

 It is true that all beautiful aspects in real sense are never easy to maintain for a long term. Therefore, the people who are blessed enough to have such a relationship should never give up on their friendship inspite of owing  the special feelings for eachother. Continuous and consistent efforts in terms of trust, patience and diligence are needed to maintain the balance between the "bonanzas."