I think , what some men fail to understand is what their women want from them??? I agree to the fact that some men are too mature to behave like a Lovy- Duvy husband. it is hard for them to show their feelings to their women or take the initiative to make their wives happy. In simple words, it can be understood as something totally out of their character. They always want their wives to tell them what they(wives) want from them but I don't understand a thing...I mean seriously..
" If everything a woman has to tell her man in words (what and how she wants things in the lives of both the people) then where does the word "UNDERSTANDING" play it's role between the two people??". It is acceptable to express most of the significant things in words in a relationship so that it doesn't turns in some misunderstanding but atleast the small and little things can be understood in "SILENCE" as well. Is it really hard for a man to understand his woman's silence?? I think it's not. Infact, it only takes a little understanding, care, trust and affection to understand a woman's silence.
A worthy woman is not the one who only craves for a physical pleasure. In real, what she craves for is a little loving gesture from her man towards her, a little act of care, a little love, a little appreciation and a little affection.What satisfies her the most is - "Being the priority of her man."(Even if not in all situations then atleast in some). She doesn't wants her man to be super rich in order to load her with tons of jewellery or expensive gifts. She just needs a little "quality time" which should make her feel that "Yes, she owes a significant place in her man's life." In other words, she wants simplicity and honesty in her man's love for her and not any superficiality. She wants all this to exist for her and not merely for showing it to people.
I think some stubborn and mature men should really put some efforts from their end ( i.e. through their self realization) in order to rejuvenate their relationship with their wives. A little initiation or an effort can make things better to a great extent. I mean it is not something very hard to be a little expressive in life. Infact, being expressive towards one's partner resolves many complicated matters in life. I understand that sometimes men want their wives to behave maturely and that is fair but it is also mandatory for men to understand that women too want men to take some initiative to make them(women) feel elated. ( If not in all situations then atleast in some).
The reality is.."The cold behaviour of a man ..sometimes shatters everything in a worthy woman. She tends to lose herself in a way that it becomes really hard for her to get back to herself and as a result she just lives like a living dead body. Therefore, in order to prevent this harsh reality...I think some stubborn and mature men should realize the fact that " It is not always a responsibility of a woman to make things better from her side, sometimes, a man should also take the initiative or a step towards her woman."