Caveat Love Her Like I Do

To someone who will replace me in her heart,

First let me tell you that of all the people I envy you the most because you will replace me in her heart. Who would want to be replace right? Especially when you really love and invested so much affection for that person. But love just like any other things has its ups and downs, sometimes it ends in a fairytale and sometimes due to ungrateful circumstances it ends in misery, and even tragedy. Loving a woman like her is not that easy because you need to do several adjustments to cope up with her mood swings. So right now I'm telling you, please be patient with her mood swings. I love her so much that it hurts me to death when we parted ways. Yes, you read it right, the woman that you have right now, the woman that loves you right now was the woman who I love so much and please don't be angry when I tell you that I still love her with every beat of my heart. You are the lucky one because you can show to her your love while I'm loving her from afar. I want to tell you that I failed to do things which I should do in order to show my love for her so please read this one till the end so you will have some ideas on how to show her that she really matters. She's a woman who caught all the mood swings in the world, in other words she has this sudden change of mood so be patient and bear with it. When you take her out for a date or dinner, don't let her eat sea foods because she has an allergy with this kind of foods. Hold her hand whether you are in public or you are spending quality time together. Don't forget to text her good morning, or to check her by texting her when you're away. She may not tell you or she may say that she doesn't want you to disturb her but still send her a text message. Call her whenever you want to hear her voice, ask her random things and if she doesn't want to answer your question don't force her to answer it because she might freak out. Don't let her answer autograph questions instead get to know her personally by asking her to go out, or to have an out of town trip. She loves to play sims in her mobile so if you see her playing, don't disturb her. Every time she tells you that she's studying then stop texting her and wait for her until she's done with what she's doing. Whenever she has an examinations, oral recitations, and reporting in school do not fight with her or confront her during that times because she will not be able to focus on her activities. Also, tell her every day that you love her, make her know that she's one of your priority. Don't be so silly because she hates that attitude ( I am silly every time). If you can give her flowers then give her to make her feel your love, I failed to give her though. Update her of your activities, on what you are doing, what you did, where you are, and who's with you to maintain good communication. Every Saturday is her laundry day so it's already given that after that day she's already tired but then text or call her still, she's the love of your life so it's necessary for you to check on her. I know you have differences but one thing I would like to tell you is learn to love what she loves, therefore remember the small as well as big details about her. You can make her smile or happy by simply reminding her about the walking dead, playing reggae songs, and talking stuffs that is funny or unusual. She's not that showy so don't demand her to do this or spill this to show you her love because she has her own way in showing you her love just be observant. When she's sharing something be sure to remember it so she will not assume that she's just nothing. When her examinations is approaching try to at least limit you texting or calling hours to her because she needs to study and focus on her subjects. Don't let her eat fresh water fish or sashimi for she doesn't eat that kind of food. One of her favorite viand thatI remember is chopsuey so please learn the art of cooking it, cooking for someone you love is sweet so I guess you should do it. When you did something wrong that pissed her just say sorry only once so she will not burst into anger. You need also to show her that sometimes you feel jealous with those people around her just to remind her that you love her. When you're planning to buy her a book choose the adventure genre, she loves it. If you're friends in facebook don't make use of profile pictures where it shows you with other person because she will rage a war, I'm just kidding, and she will be jealous and let you change your DP in no time. When you have a fight and she tells you to leave her alone, don't do it instead stay there right at her side silently, or when you're away talk to her by calling her mobile phone, remember she's a woman and what every woman says is opposite to what they really want put that in mind. Love her with all your heart. Make her feel that she's special, love her whatever situations, circumstances and whatever mood she have, love what she loves, love her positive as well as her negative side, fill up the empty space in her heart and mend every wounds she have, accept her flaws and love them, accept her past and embrace her wholeness. Respect her, respect your differences. I didn't have the chance to show all those I mentioned above because I am not lucky enough to be near to her, I'm so far just in case you didn't know, I didn't even have the chance to give her gifts and letters because I don't know her exact address despite my willingness. I tried using my research skills but still I was not able to locate her exact address. I know there's no hope for us, I don't believe in destiny, I believe in freewill, so work out your relationship with her. Treat and treasure her as if she's a rare piece of diamond, make her smile, remind her that she's wonderful and most of all love her even if it's difficult.

From the person who loves her from afar