How to Get Out From 'Friendzone'

We like the feeling of being loved by the person we truly love. It feels good that our love is requited and all our efforts are appreciated. The person we are interested in is also interested to know you more. We see the beauty in this harsh life we have. We despised rejections and like exchanging gifts of love. But that is not how life works. Sometimes we cannot get anything we want due to physical and financial limitations. Sometimes, it is required to work on it to gain it like going to a gym to gain six pack of abs. But sometimes, there is no chance or see any glimmer of hope of achieving something we want to happen in our life like exiting from a friendzone and going to a next level with her. 

We did everything to win her heart. We helped her do her homework. We treat her snacks every single day. We act nice and funny around her. But still, nothing happens. No single spark of interest seen in her mesmerizing eyes. But we forgot that she is a human, not material or medal, which we can viably gain. She has feelings and has a freedom of choice to reject you or love you back. We cannot strip away her freedom and force her to love us and draw a smile on our faces. We must learn to respect and accept her decision and let her go.  Allow time to heal our hearts wounded by our expectations. Forcing her to love us back is like pushing her to the canal, where she does not want to fall into. I am not saying we are like the sordid canal. I am just describing what she might feel if we coerced her to do something she does not want to do. 

It is time to earn some courage to ask her out and if it went to an undesirable moment, then it is up to us to continue our beautiful friendship with her or not. Rejection hurts, I know. No person is happy being rejected but it is okay at least you got your answer. Her no does not make you less loveable and unworthy person. There are billions of women out there, which means there are many chances that a certain person could see your worth, admire you and love you for who you are. Do not waste so much time, money and energy on pursuing someone who keeps running away from you. Better focus on something worthwhile like achieving your life goals or pursuing a certain career you've always wanted to do since childhood.

There is a proper time for everything.