Ladies, it's not our fault.

An Open Letter To All The Ladies na Pina-fall at Pinaasa.

Dear Ladies,

Na-inlove ka? It’s not your fault if you fell in love with that guy. It’s his fault for showing you such sweet gestures and talking sweet talks.

Nagcare ka niya? It’s not your fault if you cared too much. Natural lang sa atoang mga babae ang magcare sa ilaha.

Happy ka niya? It’s okay. It’s not your fault if you felt that way. Ilabi na if he made you feel special every single day.

Gipasakitan ka niya? Is there a reason behind it? If wala, then LEAVE. What’s there to hold on to? Ayaw na paghulat og damage control from him kay in the first place, wala ka dapat niya gipasakitan kung wala siya’y maayong rason.

Gibiyaan ka niya? Girl, it’s not your fault. Usabon nako ha? IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT. Yes, we have our abnormalities and mood swings but that’s not enough reason for them to leave us. Ug kung gibiyaan ka? AYAW NA’G APASA.

“It’s not you, it’s me.” Yes, it’s not us talaga. Definitely not us. Because all we did was to love you, care for you, cheer you up and help you get your shit together. We are not in a hurry. Kung dili pa mo gusto mag-go into relationship, let us know. Makasabot man mi. Makasabot mis terms and conditions ninyo or kung unsa pa man ang inyong kaartehan dira. We are more than willing to accept them. Ingana ming mga babae. Then you’ll just leave us hanging?

All you did was play with our feelings. All your pa-sweet actions and talks made us fell in your trap.

Every lady just wants to have pure happiness, genuine love, honesty and loyalty. Dili mi ga-demand og laing butang sa inyoha. Ga-duda mi? It’s natural. If wala mo’y kabuang, no need to be guilty. Ana lang. Kay ang instincts gyud sa mga babae, 99.99% accurate. So better man up and be honest.

For us ladies, dili dapat nato i-waste atong time sa mga lalaki na char-char lang diay ang panan-aw sa atoa. If toxic na gani, LET GO. Always keep in mind na every woman is a precious gem. Let them know na dili ta poochoo-poochoo lang na butang na pwede ra gamiton once then biyaan na. Let us know our worth. We are as precious as a diamond shining bright. Ingana atong worth.

Lastly, para sa mga lalaking ambot, we do hope you’ll realize what you lost. Boys? Be Over You Soon! ?