Chae Young Shin is gazing at the night sky and thinking...
Ahhhh..God..wae yo people have to expect things??? Wae yo people have the element called "Expectation"in their nature???? Can't they live without it??? Geez..I know it is hard to....because it something unnatural to people. For people, "expecting things is more natural or probably it is something that makes them realize ..they are human beings."
I don't understand... wae yo people expect a lot from each other?? Wae yo they mostly want same things to get reciprocated from the other person??? I mean ...somewhere they always want to know the same about the other person as the other person knows about them ( all because they have shared ..so they want the other person too to share matters with them)...Ahh...dasi..it is a natural thing to happen according to "human beings"..What... a stupid belief!!! ..I know ..this must be sounding really rude but then I guess..it is true too. I guess, what people fail to understand is that a person cannot expect or force the other person to feel for him/ her the same way. I think.."This" is natural and it is "This" that people should understand. It is the basic understanding, bond and trust that are responsible for reciprocating the same matters between the two people and most importantly it has to be natural from both the ends. It is not something that can be created by coercion or manipulation. Instead, people should learn to set free each other and not control each other. In simple terms, one person cannot expect the other person to behave in a same way with him/ her as he/she behaves with the other person.One should not behave as if he/she owes the other person.
Ahh...God wae yo people don't understand that sometimes..their expecting behaviours can make the other person feel suffocated or can simply make a person feel as if his/her personal space is being invaded. Geez...and then they would call the other person(whose space is being invaded) insensitive..What an irony?? I feel one of the tough tasks is.."To understand people"..seriously ..they are unpredictable and complicated. Wae yo they are like this.??I feel ..I should belong to some other world where I don't get this feeling frequently and where people know the real meaning of the term called " Space" which I guess..most of them in this world don't know. What they are really good at... is to react and be sensitive to really small things that should not even matter to them. Ahh..God.I might be sounding selfish..but this is what I got in my head right now. I can't explain this to people..because they won't understand and it has always been tough to make people understand..because they are really good in speaking but are very poor in listening( They lack the patience to hear the other person..leaving few). So, better to keep this with myself and not let it out in front of the people.
Wae yo...Chae Young Shin..thinking so much???..people will keepliving with their shallow thoughts..Well, you need to take care of yourself..go and sleep as it has already been late.