Soul mate????

How do you know if that someone is your soul mate 

Is it by looking into his eyes that make your heart skip a beat 

Is it the way he hold you that give the warm and safeties feeling in the world

Or it is on his smile that give you a million butterfly in your stomach ..

But what if someone own him,
someone holding his damn hand,
someone making him smile or someone love him,
is it mean your become soulless,
become empty or maybe  just accept the fact that you two are just connected by soul but not by heart.