VIRGINITY:An Asset/Relationship Foundation

Whats the first thing comes to your mind when a person says "I am in Committed Relationship" ??? Very Clear. Answer is -"Are you Virgin?? "OR" Till where your relationship has reached?? is it X(Upper body) Y(lower body) or Z(Virginity). Yeah ,We all do agree that its 21st Century but this things has became damn Trend. Suppose if your are in a 4-5 years of Committed relationship and if still you are a virgin then trust me..People are going to make fun of you (Majority ). In this generation,Modern relationship is all about Showing love in public,Holding each other,Kissing,Hugging and showing public display of affection. So if this is love then what our parents were doing.?? there Care and Concern for each other is not love??? There fight over spending 10/- extra over Potato Chips is not love.?? They doesnt drink water and eat food in the same plate in front of there kids..so is this not love.?? Showing Respect is also love. 21st Generation is quite fast forward in everything.

What You used to do when you were in 6/7th standard.??? Playing??? pulling hairs?? fighting? cycling?? right!! but this generation Kids are making GF/BF (to have a good status,to be popular among friends) Watching PORN!! are u kidding me.!! but yes..i m experinced...i have seen such kids. They experince there first kiss in there 7th class, having the knowledge of X-VIDEOS, and Biology class is only attended for knowing the Reproductive Organs. :( PAUSE.

Kindly give a PAUSE to those above thinking. Where are we heading towards/?? Where are Our generations moving to?? Where are those struggles of convincing our parents without loosing Our Virginity?? Virginity is the most precious asset,so why cant we wait till marriage before we experince it then either it is LOVE or ARRANGED..who cares??.Do We have any VALUES left for our coming generation.??? We are learning from our parents...from where our kids will learn.?? and most importantly WHAT they will learn.??ARE we counting those asset? or are we running towards FAKE LOVE.!! FAKE PLEASING!! FAKE EMOTIONS!! 

Modern Relationship should have TRUST(towards behaviour) ,SPACE( for each other individuality) LOVE( care n concern) UNDERSTANDING (for not giving time when needed) and this 4 PILLARS acts like a foundation for marriage,NOT loosing virginity. IS LOVE & TRUST POSSIBLE EVEN WHEN YOU DOESNT AGREE TO LOOSE IT FOR THE PERSON YOU LOVE THE MOST.???? kindly value it ,if not for yourself..atleast for ur KIDS sake.!