Change? Or End?

What happens when things change? What happens when people change? 

It all feels like just the other day you found the world in them and now.... Well, now it's just a soul-less person in front of you.

But why? Why is it that things change? I know that sometimes change is good. But then why someone changes in friendship, in relationship? 

The answer can be two ways, that either they've suffered too much, or they never were the one they pretended to be.

You have to face it. You keep trying to ignore it. But the truth flashes itself in the out, every time. The reason is simple that when you've put an effort in something, you don't want it to end just like that, right? 

But "end" comes. And you know it. You know that this is not for the future. You know that no matter how hard you try, the words you said to the one is now drowned; deep in the ocean. So deep that the loving light of your effort is not even reaching to it. 

But you...... You don't realize it's the end.  

You try even harder. You just want to reach to the past person. The one who treated you like the one and only. The one who made you feel important. And when you found no path, no support, that person was there. Yes, you weren't blind to trust that one. It wasn't your fault. IT WAS NEVER YOUR FAULT. 

So what was it that changed? It was the behavior that changed. IT WAS NEVER THE LOVE THAT CHANGED. Because, love..... It never changes (in decreasing manner of course) just like that. Then you now know love was never there. Or it was just scrapped out of "change".

You keep hoping something will happen again. Maybe the Gods will listen to you and shine you the wish you desired for the breaking bond, after your efforts started dying. 

But yes, end comes. Sooner or later it comes. Sometimes it teaches you a lesson, sometimes it just cripples your soul. But at least you can say that you got something from that relationship!